I want to be honest with my intent when I go up to a woman I’ve never seen or talked to before and I just decided a way to do that is to just straight up ask her if she had a boyfriend. When I tried this with someone the other day she laughed and said that she did and so I laughed and said “OK” and walked off. She seemed nice about it.
I’m being honest about my intent, but am I killing my chances with women by asking this question straight up because I’m just immediately giving them an opportunity to stop the conversation (because they can just immediately say “Yes”) before I’ve even got my foot in the door to have a conversation? Is the fact that I’m even asking this question on the forum indicating that I’m thinking about this too much?
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