Why are you here?

[Leigh]

LifeOS is built for one purpose: to help you get the answers you’re looking for. To give you the answers you’re looking for, I first need to know what you’re looking for.

So, why are you here? What answers are you looking for? If you could wave a magic wand and change one thing about your life, what would you change? And what would your life look like once you made that change?

Drop your thoughts, ideas, desires, or whatever here. I’m keen to read them.

Topic

[Huy To Ryan]

I would like to know the tools to help me overcome my all demons, namely:

1) Porn addiction

2) Fear and anxiety when it comes to doing things out of my confort zone

3)  Inferiority complex & Low Self Esteem, sometimes manifested through constant self-comparison to what other people have

 

I also would like to know about

A) Exercises (meditation exercises for example) to heighten my self-awareness/beccome more happy/getting in touch with my masculinity

And,

B) (Good to have) Tips for running a locationally-independent business, if there is such a thing 😀

 

Last but not least I’m here to seek out like minded people, who perhaps share the same problems, to grow with because this journey can be lonely sometimes

[Aram]

I’d like to experience certainty in my life on a consistent basis. I’ve been through a rollercoaster of trying different things, methods, ideologies with only one purpose – to feel certain. I feel the need to explore and implement the idea of independent ways of feeling certain.

[Damian]

I’m here because I want to find out what the best pickup coach is. I have been trying grinding but I think it is not the answer, I know that no action is not the answer because nothing happens or changes, so I need to find a way to live the middle path.

I don’t want to be a bright flash burning out to nothing as soon as it began.

I want to to be the best version of  pickup coach there is!

 

I’m keen to dive into Leigh’s ideolygies and integrate this with my journey, because it is also somewhere it began all those years ago (6).

Would like to meet some men through here as well. Make this home base…

[Valeriu Hagi]

The reason I am here is that my heart is uncomfortable and complicated.

And the reason my heart is uncomfortable and complicated is my criteria of righteousness. I’m here for a map to develop one from scratch.

So I can be mentally, emotionally and economically independent.

I should have a criterion of righteousness created by myself. But I don’t have one yet. I am wrong being chivalrous. That is other people criteria, which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Sadly this is what I’ve been doing for 8 years.

I am here to reboot my life.

It has been 8 years since I kept waking up with tears in my eyes. 8 years during which I couldn’t sleep at night. It is enough !

All the pain and suffering because 8 years ago I took a really bad decision. (Without knowing its true value.) And I couldn’t tell anyone the truth cause something bad  could happen to my family. Also, if I told my friends the truth, my family would be in a bad light.

I’ve got to choose between my family, my friends and my future. I chose doing what my family wanted and I’ve got neither of them.

I kept all that pain inside myself for 8 years.

8 years…

Why suffer all that pain when I can be happy to?! I’ve got no need of more reasons for this. This one is enough.

I lost all my friends, my dream, my job, and most important I’ve let down myself.

In fact the right word is not “I lost”  but ” I let them go willingly”. Yes it hurts when I say it like that. But I think that the only way to a new start for me is to be brutally honest with myself.

The good thing is that I don’t have something to lose anymore.

So I am here for a new start.

Reboot my life!

I believe in my imperfection: I have abilities that haven’t blossomed yet. I can do it with the right questions and challenges guiding me to take my life in a new direction.

I’m here to get help to find my vision of my perfect life and develop a plan for making it a reality.

This vision will be my criteria of righteousness.

If I continue to persist and do my best, I will someday overcome even my bad luck.

And I want that, in the future, I will be powerfull enough to help those in similar pain.

Sincerely,

Valeriu.

[Leigh]

Huy To Ryan wrote:

1) Porn addiction 2) Fear and anxiety when it comes to doing things out of my confort zone 3) Inferiority complex & Low Self Esteem, sometimes manifested through constant self-comparison to what other people have

Great. Love it. I can do something on these. I think comparing yourself to others is a good one and I’m definitely going to create a challenge for breaking a porn addiction.

Huy To Ryan wrote:

I also would like to know about A) Exercises (meditation exercises for example) to heighten my self-awareness/beccome more happy/getting in touch with my masculinity And, B) (Good to have) Tips for running a locationally-independent business, if there is such a thing

Have you checked out the challenges? This is the exact reason they were developed.

And yes, I’m definitely going to do a lot more on running a location-independent business. And yes, they exist. I’m currently running four, including this one 🙂

Huy To Ryan wrote:

😀 Last but not least I’m here to seek out like minded people, who perhaps share the same problems, to grow with because this journey can be lonely sometimes

You’re right. It can be lonely. The plan is to build these forums into a meeting place for people who want to connect with others on this journey. I’ve got some stuff in the works that should help as well.

[Leigh]

Aram wrote:

I’d like to experience certainty in my life on a consistent basis. I’ve been through a rollercoaster of trying different things, methods, ideologies with only one purpose – to feel certain. I feel the need to explore and implement the idea of independent ways of feeling certain.

Considering that’s the whole purpose of the site, I would say you’re in the right place 🙂

[Leigh]

Damian wrote:

I’m here because I want to find out what the best pickup coach is.

Great to hear, mate. There’s plenty of dating advice on the site (as I’m guessing you’re aware). Is there any one thing you’re struggling with in dating more than others? It’s a pretty big category.

[Leigh]

Valeriu Hagi wrote:

 I’m here to get help to find my vision of my perfect life and develop a plan for making it a reality. This vision will be my criteria of righteousness. If I continue to persist and do my best, I will someday overcome even my bad luck. And I want that, in the future, I will be powerfull enough to help those in similar pain. Sincerely, Valeriu.

Awesome mate. Love it. Finding your vision of your perfect life and pursuing it relentlessly will solve so many challenges and issues in your life. Have you checked out Insight yet: http://my.lifeoperatingsystem.com/all-courses/insight/

That’s exactly what it will help you do.

[Jonathan Williams]

Leigh wrote:

 

Great. Love it. I can do something on these. I think comparing yourself to others is a good one and I’m definitely going to create a challenge for breaking a porn addiction.

I also have difficulties sometimes when I try and stop comparing myself to others. Of course, the more I work in my focus control and finding out what I really want and satisfying my desires, the less I focus on comparising myself to others. But, I still run into that kind of problem sometimes.

[Leigh]

Jonathan Williams wrote:

I also have difficulties sometimes when I try and stop comparing myself to others. Of course, the more I work in my focus control and finding out what I really want and satisfying my desires, the less I focus on comparising myself to others. But, I still run into that kind of problem sometimes.

Congratulations, you just wrote the article.

That was easy, next!

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