The man / boy

I have a question. Since I started following the site between 2015/2016 my focus was to be an attractive person to get more women, more status, more power, etc … what has not crossed my mind since that time is how to be a really attractive person , someone with whom women feel safe, lively, alive and who never tire of being by their side where they feel the man holding them in their hands, would be very grateful if someone could answer me how to be that skillful and interesting man.