[Jimmy]

I’ve noticed in the past with some people I have got on really well with at times, there will be times where they share a lot of information about themselves and the conversation flows and there is a good connection, and yet at other times they shut the conversation down, change the subject, or try to keep the topic of conversation away from them by starting to talk about other people.”

What is different about these moments? Begin to notice them as you’re in them.  How are you acting? How are they acting?  How was your day that day?  Is your behavior different?</span>

[Jimmy]

You’re asking a question about how to change a habit.  It’s simple.  Notice when you are being the way you don’t want to be and then act in the way you DO want to be.  Because acting in a way you don’t want to be was something you thought would get you ahead and it worked (or something) but now it doesn’t work anymore for you.  It’s not giving what you want.  So why can’t you just go in the reverse?  Put yourself in situations where the “new you” would come up and instead activate “the old you”.  Voila.  On a side note I experience similar things.  I also personally have high standards for what is right and so on and so forth.  One thing that I understood, partially through my path through the content of this site and it’s long line of predecessors is that everyone has a path.  It may go through you.  It may not.  But where would you be without the person that you were?  Where would you be without your bad times?  Where would you be if you weren’t disappointed in yourself at some point?  Is it possible that those people are just living that part of their lives?  Maybe the place that they’re in isn’t a far away from a thing you used to do or a motive that perhaps you once shared.  And in that may maybe you can sympathize with them.  It doesn’t mean their behavior has to become “OK” but change the way you feel towards people that becomes less about hate and dispassion and more about love, kindness, compassion and understanding.

A man can have standards and still love people who don’t meet them.

[Jimmy]

Thanks man.

[Jimmy]

And there’s nothing wrong with wanting women.  There’s nothing wrong with any of the things you want.  This website isn’t about what’s right and wrong or telling you what to do.  It’s about helping you get what you want. So go out and meet women, talk to them, get to know them, have sex with them.  Once you’re having those experiences, life will tell you what all those things really meant.  But what’s important is that you’re taking action, not stuck behind a computer screen.

[Jimmy]

Are there legal ramifications for being a coach?  How do I avoid those?  I mean, when people pay you for your advice, are you not liable for the advice you give?

[Jimmy]

I can help with this one.  The point of this site is not to help you get better with women.  It’s to help you take your happiness into your own hands and thus, when you have things in your control, you naturally attract women.  Even if you don’t attract women, it’s ok because you are complete without them.  Does that make sense?

[Jimmy]

I’m so scared 🙂

[Jimmy]

Update.  I got let off from my job because I wasn’t meeting my numbers.  Moved to a different business.  Still going at it.

[Jimmy]

Hey Leigh.  How many people have you successfully coached through making a living off of Passive Online Income.

[Jimmy]

Also.  I feel like I’m connecting more with the AI guys now.  And the people around me.  I’m slowly taking off the dark cloud of my childhood and realizing I AM enough.

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